Do you love the idea of an erotic massage but worry that it won’t be as fulfilling as you hope? Do you want to make the most of your next session, so that you leave feeling blissed out and relaxed, rather than rushed and slightly bewildered? If this sounds familiar, read on for some tips on how to get the most from your upcoming erotic massage.
Be Prepared To Let Go Of Control
Erotic massage is designed to help you let go of control and relax so that you can enjoy the session more. This is why it’s important to leave any expectations or ideas you may have at the door. The more you can let go of expectations, the more you will enjoy the experience. You also need to be prepared to stay at the table for the entirety of the session.
Be Clear About Your Intentions
Before the massage starts, you should discuss with your masseuse what your intentions are for the session. What are you hoping to get from the session? Are there any parts of your body that you are particularly interested in focusing on? Be sure to also discuss any areas that you prefer not to focus on or are particularly sensitive to.
If you have been given a massage before, you will know that it can get very intimate. The masseuse will likely be touching your entire body, including your genitals, so it’s important to communicate whether you are comfortable with this or not.
Choose A Licensed, Certified Masseuse
If possible, try to book a licensed, certified erotic massage masseuse. This will ensure that you are in good hands, as these types of messages have a reputation for being a bit more questionable and unprofessional. This will also give you peace of mind knowing that the person providing the massage has been trained and certified to provide this type of massage.
If you are booking online, you can look for certain indicators that the person is licensed and certified, such as a logo, certification information, etc. You can also ask for their license number, if possible. You can also look for legitimate websites that list licensed, certified massage therapists in your area.
Don’t Be Afraid To Ask Questions Before You Start
If you have any questions or specific areas you want to focus on, be sure to ask your masseuse before the massage starts. This way, you won’t feel as nervous or embarrassed about asking questions during the session.
You may find that you want to ask questions about what they are doing, why they are doing it, or how the massage works. For example, you may want to ask how long the session is going to last, how many breaks will occur, etc. This will help you feel more relaxed and in the know during the session.
Communicate What Does And Doesn’t Feel Good
One of the most important things you can do during an erotic massage is communicating when something feels good and when it doesn’t. Erotic massage is all about the connection between you and your masseuse. If you don’t feel comfortable telling them what feels good, you won’t be able to experience the full benefits of the massage.
Be sure to communicate with your masseuse when something feels good. You can also communicate if something doesn’t feel good, but it’s important to be respectful and polite when doing so. You can say something like, “I don’t want you to stop, but this doesn’t feel good for me,” or “Could you please do this a bit more gently?”